Hi All,
First time posting here but have read a lot, thank you all for so much information. We are 1st time dobie owners, our male is 5 mo. old (had him since 8 weeks), his name is Doug
In advance, sorry if this post becomes a novel but I truly appreciate any feedback.
We've had quite a few dogs via rescue, foster etc.. Our big lab/shepherd mix who passed 2 years ago, had some definite "fear" based issues towards people, so I have a little bit of PTSD from that and, honestly, am looking for some assurance some of the things we have experienced with Doug is normal (more protection or "I'm only 5 months old" based) for this breed.
Overall, Doug is great. I exercise him via 1-2 30 minute walks a day, playing in the yard, or 3 - 4 days a week he goes to doggy daycare, where he does very well, they always say how well he plays with the other dogs and they adore him. He also does a lot of clicker based training, 1-2 sessions a week at the daycare with their trainers, and I do clicker training with him daily. He's very smart and responsive. FYI we also have a lab, a pomeranian and a cavalier that he loves, they're working on loving him back but everyone gets along just fine.
So, here's the scenarios of concern and also some positives:
*On walks, he does fine with passerby, unless (not all the time, just sometimes) they are coming out of their house or walking down their driveway and we happen to be in front. Hair up, bark bark bark. I am currently walking him with a clicker and treats, so I do my best to keep his attention beforehand and the "look at that" technique. If I don't get to it in time, and he gets aggitated, its tough to bring him back under threshold so I basically have to pull him to keep moving.
*While in car, he will bark and groan (no teeth showing) if we are, say, at a stoplight and there is a pedestrian waiting for the light.
*Due to Covid, we've only had a few people over, one of which was my sister. He did okay with her, especially since she brought her dog. Laid next to her, didn't bark but just at first. Toward the end of the visit, she bent down while he was laying on his mat and he got a little spooked and ran over to me. This incident was probably what concerned me regarding "fear". That said, he had been at daycare all day and possibly was overtired.
*He does have alot of friends that are people on the street, and he loves all of the workers at his daycares.
*We took him to an outdoor mall yesterday and he was completely aloof to all the people. One lady asked to take a picture and he liked her, one gentleman came up very abruptly, arms out trying to pet him and Doug groaned a bit, a couple barks, hair up. I called Doug over to me and made him sit, then he was okay.
*Take him to Petsmart at least once a week to walk around and get a toy or something, no issues there, not phased at all by people walking by etc.
*Just like the man above at the outdoor mall, my neighbor (who also owns a dobie) tried to approach Doug in the same manner, bending down, arms out, almost like he was tripping toward Doug. Doug backed up, barked etc.. Just prior, he had wanted to introduce his doberman to Doug, but the dobie was not super friendly and was growling. Doug's reaction in this scenario I assume is perfectly normal, regardless of the breed/temperament.
*We were chatting next door in our neighbors yard and Doug was playing with their retriever. The two ladies were out with us, and the gentleman was standing at the dutch door (top part open). Doug licked his hand a few times and seemed fine, but also groaned at him a little bit later while the gentleman was talking.
So that's that, I guess my overall concern is I've never known a 5 month old puppy to bark at people. I am trying to rest my mind at ease, and my wife and I will do everything we can, continuing training, socialization etc... I think alot of it is in my head, and while I do all the right things to be the pack leader (make him wait at doors, wait for food etc..), I know that my anxiety is not helping the situation at all.
Appreciate your feedback, sorry for the length !
First time posting here but have read a lot, thank you all for so much information. We are 1st time dobie owners, our male is 5 mo. old (had him since 8 weeks), his name is Doug
We've had quite a few dogs via rescue, foster etc.. Our big lab/shepherd mix who passed 2 years ago, had some definite "fear" based issues towards people, so I have a little bit of PTSD from that and, honestly, am looking for some assurance some of the things we have experienced with Doug is normal (more protection or "I'm only 5 months old" based) for this breed.
Overall, Doug is great. I exercise him via 1-2 30 minute walks a day, playing in the yard, or 3 - 4 days a week he goes to doggy daycare, where he does very well, they always say how well he plays with the other dogs and they adore him. He also does a lot of clicker based training, 1-2 sessions a week at the daycare with their trainers, and I do clicker training with him daily. He's very smart and responsive. FYI we also have a lab, a pomeranian and a cavalier that he loves, they're working on loving him back but everyone gets along just fine.
So, here's the scenarios of concern and also some positives:
*On walks, he does fine with passerby, unless (not all the time, just sometimes) they are coming out of their house or walking down their driveway and we happen to be in front. Hair up, bark bark bark. I am currently walking him with a clicker and treats, so I do my best to keep his attention beforehand and the "look at that" technique. If I don't get to it in time, and he gets aggitated, its tough to bring him back under threshold so I basically have to pull him to keep moving.
*While in car, he will bark and groan (no teeth showing) if we are, say, at a stoplight and there is a pedestrian waiting for the light.
*Due to Covid, we've only had a few people over, one of which was my sister. He did okay with her, especially since she brought her dog. Laid next to her, didn't bark but just at first. Toward the end of the visit, she bent down while he was laying on his mat and he got a little spooked and ran over to me. This incident was probably what concerned me regarding "fear". That said, he had been at daycare all day and possibly was overtired.
*He does have alot of friends that are people on the street, and he loves all of the workers at his daycares.
*We took him to an outdoor mall yesterday and he was completely aloof to all the people. One lady asked to take a picture and he liked her, one gentleman came up very abruptly, arms out trying to pet him and Doug groaned a bit, a couple barks, hair up. I called Doug over to me and made him sit, then he was okay.
*Take him to Petsmart at least once a week to walk around and get a toy or something, no issues there, not phased at all by people walking by etc.
*Just like the man above at the outdoor mall, my neighbor (who also owns a dobie) tried to approach Doug in the same manner, bending down, arms out, almost like he was tripping toward Doug. Doug backed up, barked etc.. Just prior, he had wanted to introduce his doberman to Doug, but the dobie was not super friendly and was growling. Doug's reaction in this scenario I assume is perfectly normal, regardless of the breed/temperament.
*We were chatting next door in our neighbors yard and Doug was playing with their retriever. The two ladies were out with us, and the gentleman was standing at the dutch door (top part open). Doug licked his hand a few times and seemed fine, but also groaned at him a little bit later while the gentleman was talking.
So that's that, I guess my overall concern is I've never known a 5 month old puppy to bark at people. I am trying to rest my mind at ease, and my wife and I will do everything we can, continuing training, socialization etc... I think alot of it is in my head, and while I do all the right things to be the pack leader (make him wait at doors, wait for food etc..), I know that my anxiety is not helping the situation at all.
Appreciate your feedback, sorry for the length !