Thanks. She's okay. I haven't posted publicly about it because it was a really hard decision to make. We're working with the behaviorist and we're changing her medication right now. We had a long, hard talk about it (lots of tears), and decided that for now we need to take a break. I kept expecting her to settle in more, and be more relaxed as we did more visits. She did fine (great, actually), but she clearly is just doing a job, and isn't enjoying it. It's tough, because this is kind of the last dream I had for her. We've pretty much let go of everything we've wanted to do with her because of her issues, so stopping this has been really hard. We're going to see where we're at when the new meds are at full efficacy and go from there.
Right now I'm looking into taking a nose work or tracking class with her, because those are both things a reactive dog can do well, as they don't involve interaction with other people or other dogs, and are really "dog directed" rather than "handler directed," if that makes sense.
Anyway, more than you probably wanted to know.