I have an 8-month-old male and am fostering a 3-year-old female. Both are intact and she is not in heat. We are on day 3 and he is still 'girl crazy'. She definitely puts him in his place but I can't have them roughhousing in the house. His normal temperament is high energy with periods of calm. She is calm and chill. I would love to have them both chilling in the house in the evening. I suppose I am not being patient enough for them to work it out. I would love to have her permanently but so far this is a lot of work shuffling them throughout the day. I apologize in advance for being a newbie to all of this. Any guidance or suggestions are greatly appreciated!