Ava, our rescue, fits right in with our family now. I thought flyball would be good for her since she loves the tennis ball. We were invited to come and practice with a team to see if it was something we could do. When the trainer tried to work with her she cowered and her ears were pinned back. She looked afraid so we stopped. He said that was a sign of being abused by a man because she was fine when the women in the group handled her. She would even go up to the women for butt rubs. I told him she's fine with my husband. Anyway, he suggested to keep bringing her back to build her confidence. Should I help her get used to certain types of men first before going back?