[Oreokitty]

I thought I was done crying.. Till I saw his ball in the back yard. The snow had melted around it and just remembering that he won't play with it again.. I lost it yesterday..

:sadcry:

 

[alwayshadpets]

Its ok to cry. It shows you cared.
I still think of the ones that have left me. I smile more now thinking about them. Time heals all.

 

[Oreokitty]

Why is it so hard not to think of him not with us anymore? I mean.. I just want him to buldoze me going down the stairs. The things that drove me crazy I want them back so much that my heart hurts...

 

[TomAndKing]

Its been just over two months for me and I literally talk about King atleat 10 times a day. Wanting our babies back will never go away. I still cry all the time when i see a pic, and especially when i read through Kings post in here. I was transfering some pics from CD onto the new hard drive and it made me cry. Crying is a great way to heal. With time it will go from crying because they are not there to remember all the good times.

 

[TracyJo]

Storm has been gone for a couple years now and I still cry over her on occassion. I found her black leather collar that we bought in Germany - there was hair stuck in the flap under the buckle. Storm hair! I totally lost it. I carefully cleaned the hair out and put in a baggy and the baggy in my box of Storm stuff before giving the collar to Chi.
I can't say it gets easier but it does seem less intense as it was in the first few months after she passed.
Here is a link to a website that might help you: http://www.petloss.com/

 

[LindaH]

It's a chunk of your heart gone and that injury hurts for a long, long time.

 

[Acooper]

People who don't have pets can refer to a loss as "it was just a dog" but they will never understand the kind of person it takes to love, care for, and mourn a dog, You are one of the special people!

 

[LapDog]

People who don't have pets can refer to a loss as "it was just a dog" but they will never understand the kind of person it takes to love, care for, and mourn a dog, You are one of the special people!

I absolutely agree...
I had an experience like that with my past Dalmatian we had...It was a normal day...until I saw some of her hair behind the couch or even now...5 years later...I still will get sad when I see a small pokey white hair on my black shirt...Although its not really sadness anymore...its more like ...Im proud and happy that she has showed up in my life even in that simple way of a piece of her hair on my shirt...just proves to me that she is still here...