I'm sorry to hear that, I don't think I would have been very happy in that situation either.
I don't really think a bad experience with a recommended breeder is the norm.And people wonder why there are still back yard breeders around...
I think the hush-hush, sweep-it-under-the-rug mentality is in general a whole lot of the reason this breed is in so much trouble now.I’m not a breeder and don’t have any dogs from Adlercrest, however, I don’t really think you are helping yourself with other respectable breeders---- as there really isn’t any shortage of people wanting dogs from the good breeders. And those breeders want a positive ongoing relationship with their puppy buyers for the life of the dog.
Y'know, what you say is very true IF there is neglect, abuse, or outright dishonesty is involved. Looking at this situation, there is no indication of anything even remotely similar to that. Excuse me for what I am seeing here, but it is an unhappy puppy buyer because the breeders saw red flags with the buyer. That is totally their perrogative and I think something like this has no business on a public board. And for as long as I've been dealing with the general public, from the tone of this, there is a very different story and probably a more realistic version that we don't even know, and y'know what, I don't care to know because it is none of my business.I think the hush-hush, sweep-it-under-the-rug mentality is in general a whole lot of the reason this breed is in so much trouble now.
Transparency. It's awesome.
This poster seems credible, isn't making outlandish claims, the story sounds very plausible, and if there's more to it/another side, whatever, well, there always is, in life.
This poster certainly has the right to report *their* personal experience, and I, as I am sure many others do, appreciate them doing so.
Spending a couple decades around the breed ring, there sure are *some* folks who develop a very self-entitled, dismissive attitude and most dog savvy folks HAVE encountered it at least a few times, over the years.
Story sounds plausible to me, and seems a shame if it is as reported.
As a breeder do you ever let a prospective puppy buyer know why you turned them down or do you just make it clear you aren't selling a puppy to them?Y'know, what you say is very true IF there is neglect, abuse, or outright dishonesty is involved. Looking at this situation, there is no indication of anything even remotely similar to that. Excuse me for what I am seeing here, but it is an unhappy puppy buyer because the breeders saw red flags with the buyer. That is totally their perrogative and I think something like this has no business on a public board. And for as long as I've been dealing with the general public, from the tone of this, there is a very different story and probably a more realistic version that we don't even know, and y'know what, I don't care to know because it is none of my business.
Yes, Absolutely I tell a buyer why I've turned them down. I don't think it's right not to. And like you said, it gives them an opportunity to improve their situation. Sometimes though, there are just plain old bad vibs, it's like an inner sense you get as a breeder, I've not listened to those bad vibs on a few occassions and certainly wished I had. I am extremely careful now to listen to my inner gut feelings because they are usually right.As a breeder do you ever let a prospective puppy buyer know why you turned them down or do you just make it clear you aren't selling a puppy to them?
I only ask because I'm always seeking constructive criticism and, as a buyer, I'd prefer if a breeder made it clear to me what was not ideal about my situation or why they would not sell a puppy to me. Being rejected would never make me go to a BYB though. I would just improve my situation or reconsider all together.
A lot of folks do not share their reasoning, and for good reason... making it clear to a turned-down potential puppy buyer exactly why they were turned down effectively gives the potential buyer the tools necessary to present a better (and less true) picture to the next breeder.As a breeder do you ever let a prospective puppy buyer know why you turned them down or do you just make it clear you aren't selling a puppy to them?
I only ask because I'm always seeking constructive criticism and, as a buyer, I'd prefer if a breeder made it clear to me what was not ideal about my situation or why they would not sell a puppy to me.