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09-30-2019 05:50 AM
blueberry I'm so sorry for your loss. They never stay with us long enough. Run free Ali...
09-19-2019 01:11 AM
sandy2233 The best place to bury a dog is in the heart of its master. She's there. Always. So very sorry for your loss.
09-18-2019 03:55 PM
Control_Freak Ken, Iím so sorry youíve had to say goodbye to your sweet Ali.
09-11-2019 06:52 AM
falnfenix I'm so sorry.
09-10-2019 03:04 PM
Meldrew79 I'm so sorry for your loss.
09-08-2019 11:09 PM
Fitzmar Dobermans I'm so sorry to hear this Ken - but I'm glad you didn't let her suffer any more. RIP Ali, you were loved. Hugs to those left behind.
09-08-2019 04:43 PM
dax0402 Oh, Ken, I am just seeing this as I was away all day yesterday. I am so so very sorry for your loss of your sweet girl. I know she is running free with Baron! Sleep softly Ali girl.
09-08-2019 10:53 AM
Coco Loco Doc that is beautiful how you summed that up and so true. We miss them and the joy they brought us but how blessed were we to have them bring that joy into our lives. We would have missed so much if we had never had them and that's why we keep bringing them into our lives.
09-08-2019 09:21 AM
ECIN Lannie , O yeah , the river will start , as with the poems , yet , they are tears of sadness at first , for all of us that has lost one of gods greatest gifts to us yet at the same time , tears of joy , for all the love they gave us and joy they gave us with our time together .
09-08-2019 08:19 AM
Lannie I'm afraid to watch the video, the poem has me crying my eyes out. Maybe later.

Thanks for sharing your day with us, Ken. My heart is with you.
09-08-2019 07:05 AM
ECIN
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Thinking of you today.....
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I am still crying.

Thanks for the tribute.
Me too Denny , me too
09-07-2019 07:53 PM
greenkouki Reading all your posts about her, the happy and sad, it's clear how much she meant to you. I am so sorry for your loss.
09-07-2019 06:16 PM
StrykersPerson I am still crying.

Thanks for the tribute.
09-07-2019 05:03 PM
Coco Loco You're absolutely right Doc that a new dog never replaces our old lovey. They do start a new chapter and I feel they honour the old lovey. When the time is right I hope you and your family can start the new chapter.

I saved these the day Coco left us and they still bring me comfort so I'm sharing them with you in Hope's they will help you a little. Hugs to you guys.


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09-07-2019 02:36 PM
ECIN Thanks Louise , Meadowcat and Lady Di
09-07-2019 01:37 PM
LadyDi

Thinking of you today.....
09-07-2019 10:26 AM
ellierose I am so very sorry. I hoped you and your wife would have more time with Ali. As others have said, they are never with us long enough. Ali is at peace and time will help ease your pain.
09-07-2019 09:43 AM
MeadowCat Oh, Ken. I'm so very sorry for your loss. The gift we give to them is so very devastating to us. We take on the burden of pain and loss to spare them suffering. It's so incredibly obvious the depth of love that you and your wife have for Ali, and that she was a cherished member of your family.

I believe deep in my soul that our animal companions have a place beside us in the world to come. Until that time, may your memories bring you comfort in this time of grief and loss. We're all here for you.
09-07-2019 08:42 AM
Louise&Aaron
Ali girl

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Thanks for all the kind words and prayers for us and our Ali girl



Rosemary nailed it , we all know that , that day will come , yet when the vet hands you a death sentence, it goes off the scale . This was the first time for us dealing with cancer in one of our dogs , itís terrible to go threw and watch it affect our , your , pride and joy . I keep asking why Ali ? She didnít deserve this , then I think about all the others , kids , people , brothers and sisters , why ? How could this happen ?



I feel so worthless , you all know that Doberman look , the one that they depend on us to protect them look , when itís storming they donít feel good , they look to us for that security , and I could not produce this time . Yes , I know dang good and well that we did everything humanly possible to help her , it donít help any , for me anyway . I was talking to Doc yesterday when he got here and we were talking about Ali , he said Ken , you have done everything you can , but as I said , not even your best effects are just not enough sometimes .



Ali was in the house with the wife when Doc got here , it was time for me , I walked in and the Mrs gave her one last kiss and rub , I said Ali , itís pretty out , letís go outside and I picked her up and carried her out and laid her on here favorite rugs , she knew doc ! He lended down and kissed her head and very gently rubbed her head , Ali raised her head and tried to give him a kiss she had her head laying across my lap , as always , as I rubbed her head and said Im so sorry girl , we canít make you well , but doc is going to take that damn pain away , In a second , I felt her relax and watched her close her eyes for the last time , my girl was now pain free again .



Poor Mr. Business , he was a trouper , everyday , he would try and motivate her to get up , to eat and to be there for his best friend , he knew something was terribly wrong with her. As I carried Ali out to her resting place , she urinated as I carried her , all over my leg and left a trial out . After the services was over , I let him out , he picked up on the urine and followed it to her gave and there it stopped . He looked at me and then just laid down for a second looking at her grave , then got up and walked and walked around it . I took him out last night and said letís play some ball , he ran out and got his ball and then came back and sit next to me , ball was no fun with out Big Sissy . He has laid around all morning , he is heart broken . He knows she is gone



It is so quite here ! No Dobers chasing each other threw the house , no me , saying Ali or Kadin quit that , or come here and letís play ball in the house , which we could only do when Mrs Doc was not around , lol



Well my friends , I canít thank you all enough for all the support you have gave our family , so what is next ? I donít know , but I have found when one takes part of your heart with them , the best thing to try , try ! And make it whole again is a new little puppy , not a replacement for a dog that is gone , but to start a new chapter in our book .



Love you all



Doc


Sobbing.....Iím so sorry [emoji24]

Just saw this on a Facebook group.....Ali would say this to you....

Thank you for taking my pain away,
I know it was a hard decision to make,
Just between me and you,
My body had taken all it could take,
I really hated having to leave you,
My favorite place ever, is by your side,
But as much as I tried to cover it up,
The pain I was in, I couldn't hide,
I know the decision you made was difficult,
But your choice was the right one that day,
It had gotten to where my life wasn't fun,
I didnt want to eat or play,
You gave everything you had for me,
To make my life an amazing place,
The memories I have will be eternal,
Even time could never erase!
I know you struggled with that choice,
It was really the right thing to do,
Please remember I am never far away,
Because my spirit lives inside of you,
If I could leave you with one thought forever,
These words will always ring true,
I promise to live in your heart for eternity,
And I will always love you![emoji173]

Written by Jerry Wayne Baldwin, author and musician!


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09-07-2019 08:30 AM
ECIN Thanks for all the kind words and prayers for us and our Ali girl

Rosemary nailed it , we all know that , that day will come , yet when the vet hands you a death sentence, it goes off the scale . This was the first time for us dealing with cancer in one of our dogs , itís terrible to go threw and watch it affect our , your , pride and joy . I keep asking why Ali ? She didnít deserve this , then I think about all the others , kids , people , brothers and sisters , why ? How could this happen ?

I feel so worthless , you all know that Doberman look , the one that they depend on us to protect them look , when itís storming they donít feel good , they look to us for that security , and I could not produce this time . Yes , I know dang good and well that we did everything humanly possible to help her , it donít help any , for me anyway . I was talking to Doc yesterday when he got here and we were talking about Ali , he said Ken , you have done everything you can , but as I said , not even your best effects are just not enough sometimes .

Ali was in the house with the wife when Doc got here , it was time for me , I walked in and the Mrs gave her one last kiss and rub , I said Ali , itís pretty out , letís go outside and I picked her up and carried her out and laid her on here favorite rugs , she knew doc ! He lended down and kissed her head and very gently rubbed her head , Ali raised her head and tried to give him a kiss she had her head laying across my lap , as always , as I rubbed her head and said Im so sorry girl , we canít make you well , but doc is going to take that damn pain away , In a second , I felt her relax and watched her close her eyes for the last time , my girl was now pain free again .

Poor Mr. Business , he was a trouper , everyday , he would try and motivate her to get up , to eat and to be there for his best friend , he knew something was terribly wrong with her. As I carried Ali out to her resting place , she urinated as I carried her , all over my leg and left a trial out . After the services was over , I let him out , he picked up on the urine and followed it to her gave and there it stopped . He looked at me and then just laid down for a second looking at her grave , then got up and walked and walked around it . I took him out last night and said letís play some ball , he ran out and got his ball and then came back and sit next to me , ball was no fun with out Big Sissy . He has laid around all morning , he is heart broken . He knows she is gone

It is so quite here ! No Dobers chasing each other threw the house , no me , saying Ali or Kadin quit that , or come here and letís play ball in the house , which we could only do when Mrs Doc was not around , lol

Well my friends , I canít thank you all enough for all the support you have gave our family , so what is next ? I donít know , but I have found when one takes part of your heart with them , the best thing to try , try ! And make it whole again is a new little puppy , not a replacement for a dog that is gone , but to start a new chapter in our book .

Love you all

Doc
09-07-2019 07:27 AM
Lannie I have no words, and they wouldn't help anyway, but you know I'm feeling your pain.

Big hugs to you and Mr. B.
09-07-2019 12:40 AM
Louise&Aaron I am so so sorry, my heart is broken for you. You gave her a wonderful life and she is now pain free and running with all the other dobies lost over the years [emoji3590]


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09-06-2019 09:31 PM
gamermouse0213 Oh no! I'm so sorry. My condolences to you and your family.
09-06-2019 08:17 PM
StrykersPerson Ditto what everyone else has said.

Take comfort in knowing that she had the best forever family. Go ahead and grieve. It's going to take a minute to get over the shock of her not being there.

I am so sad for you.

I've got plenty of animals that crossed the bridge that are happy to meet her!

Condolences to your family.

09-06-2019 08:05 PM
Coco Loco Oh Doc I'm so sorry. My heart is broken for you. I've been so busy the last few days but I just said to myself I've got to get on the forum to see about any updates regarding Miss Ali. I think Coco nudged me here because the old gals are having a great time together.

Like Rose said knowing what is coming definitely doesn't make it any easier at all. I know that one well.
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