I still am not sure where the OP is located, but if you're anywhere near DC/VA, I could arrange a transport at the end of the month. I'll be going through Ohio.

The thread title says "SF Bay area", so I'm assuming California.

OMG. Duh.

I'm just gonna finish my coffee now. . .

TallStef- Cut Rosemary some slack, we Texans don't travel much out west of the Pecos to the Left Coast- ain't no reason to!...

Noo that entire thing was because I was a dummy! Fits with the rest of my day, so I'm drinking more coffee. Except there's been a time change and now I'm drinking coffee at 5:30.

Prediction: I'm even dumber tomorrow due to the forecasted lack of sleep.

Okay thanks all of you. You guys give me hope .

I should actually get in contact with organizations near by and also follow up on all the other suggestions given here.

I do plan to explore different possibilities and try to find the best option (given location and resources).

I wanted to leave one last message to say that even if it takes me a little while to follow up and come back to this thread, it doesn't mean I've given up.

Having said that, I will see if I can't find anything local. I've been suggested to even try putting some type of "adopt me" vest on her while we go out to local dog parks. I may just do that, who knows, just another idea.


Thanks

Go to a rescue. They have a lot of experience finding a home where your baby will fit right in. They can check the people out and make sure their home/living conditions are what they describe SO much better than you just giving her to someone you meet in a park or online.

PLEASE don't just give her to anyone you randomly meet. You would be taking a HUGE chance...and she is the one who would suffer.

" To the OP (and please, StrykersPerson, take this in the spirit it is meant).."

I took it with the spirit it was intended. I am easily check able. Might not like my current credit score, though!

SimpleDobe,

Please PM one of us so we can understand the dilemma you are in? People might be able to come up with a really brainy plan for you to not have to give her up.

I stand by the Doberman Rescue Group option. They are very picky about who they let their dogs go to. They scrutinize a prospective adopter, and rank up there somewhere being scrutinized while trying to buy a house.

Foster parents don't want to see that dog back in rescue. Some Foster Peeps, ME, bawl like a baby when that dog has to leave. Check out a rescue group. I will send an E-mail to the rescue group I adopted my boy from. She's extremely active in the Dobe rescue and I will bet she knows someone in San Fran.

E-mail sent!

I probably won't get a response until tomorrow.

Do not put an "Adopt me" vest on her. Take her to a Dobe specific rescue group! She will get someone like me. Who knows? Maybe she will end up somehow at my place!

I wish you would open up to at least one of us. You really do need to take care of yourself. Take care of her then take care of yourself.

Can you get one of us pictures?

My rescue contact will definitely ask for some...

To SimpleDobe
If your deal with StrykersPerson does not work out, I would be interested. I am an Air Force Wounded Warrior. I just recently had to put down my boy Brunswick. I had him for 2.5 years. I have a big hole in my heart! I am able to travel to CA to pick her up. I can provide references for you to check. I will pm you. Please don't give her to a rescue until we make contact.

There should be no problem with her going to a reputable breed rescue first, if you're a good/qualified home I'm sure you'll have no problem getting an application for her through the rescue.

If you have problems I would consider another Dobie I have a 7 yr old boy with wobblers who is still doing well enough for a girl to play with. does she like water? I have a pool for us all in the summer. I live in so cal Murrieta could come and get her does she travel well? so many ?s call me if you want Burke 951-265-7126 I also know Ardis Braun of Dobies and little paws rescue in Fillmore who is an very nice rescue.

no to the vest you cannot judge who or why srtangers would take her. just my opinion

Did you ever contact the breeder? This should always be the first call when you can't keep your dog.

I would be willing to drive up

Hey SimpleDobe, did you contact your breeder? Did you contact Cambria? If you signed a contract, it's important you fulfill your obligations regarding situations like this.

You guys are amazing people, all your suggestions and advices!!! Thank you all for caring. I keep getting emails from this site and all I do is delete them, but now because of all of you I’m hoping I can become a better asset to the forum. I pray to the Sgt Major of the sky’s that everything goes well for the 5 years old female Dobe.

They are ignoring any question in regards to their breeder - I for one find this beyond suspicious. No one (including a rescue) should take this dog until the breeder is notified and agrees to the rehoming!

The breeder may not care what happens to the dog, but until we know who they are and know that they have been notified, I consider the owner as suspect.

And that's a damned shame...it shows they don't actually care about the dog, or fulfilling contracts. That's a great way to ensure they end up blacklisted from reputable breeders in the future, too.

@burkehinman and @too2tuff thank you or your notes. As soon as I hear back from my breeder I will update and see if there is any positive news there, I have sent them a note. There is no signed contract regarding this as far as I know.

Sorry for those who think I am not doing a great job, this is not an easy thing to do. As much as is in my power, I am trying to not rush this and I am doing the best I can.

Thanks again to all those who have stayed positive and supportive. I will also be looking at sending pictures to those who have shown interest. Of course, the ideal situation is still that I could find someone local and have her stay for a weekend or so to make sure it's the right fit, but maybe this is naive and won't work out.

I will also be contacting the rescue groups near by and see what they say, this is probably my next step depending on what the breeder says.

I won't be putting the adopt me vest on her, thanks for that feedback.

Please bear with me, and thanks again.

Okay after reading more of your posts over again, I am beginning to see what you guys are trying to say.


If my breeder is unable to help I will be reaching out to the rescues.

For some reason I had this notion that it wasn't the best option and that I should find someone myself but I am now seeing that I am probably quite mistaken.


Also, I am not sure I am able to send PMs on this site, I've tried sending some to the people who had expressed interest letting them know I am still here and have updated this thread.

SimpleDobe - Your decision is not an easy one. Take all the time you need. I did get your pm. Thank you for the update.

Reputable breed specific rescue groups are the way to go, emergency or not!

Kudos to Kansas City Doberman Rescue and the rescue group in Bixby, Ok! (shout out there)

I felt violated after they did a home visit on me to check my fences and house and who is going to be home to tend this dog. Where is the kennel and food going to be? I really felt like I wasn't going to pass as a foster mom. But, I passed!

I haven't found any disreputable Dobe rescue groups yet!

Chin up, SimpleDobe.

Hope things start to prosper for you.

I think i too now understand the fallacy of your original thinking as i watch this play out. Maybe re-homing a pet with a close family member or loyal friend would be a ideal handover but when dealing with complete strangers it is better to go through a broker that has experience and has only the interest of the pet.