Hey all, I've got a little issue here that I need some assistance with...
I'm the proud owner of a 10-year-old black lab, a 3-year-old wiener dog, and recently picked up a new 12-week-old doberman puppy that an aquaintence couldn't take care of as he wasn't prepared for what a puppy requires. My wife and I are completely in love with our new little boy, and he's doing wonderfully. He's not really doing anything outside of being a typical puppy. He loves to play, play, play, then nap, nap, nap!
The problem is the spoiled wiener dog which is attached to the hip of my wife when we are home. The wiener dog loves to play, but only on HIS time, not anyone else's. If the dobe pup plays and the time is right, our wiener dog(Wilson), will jump and play and wag his tail. Other times, however, Wilson simply shows teeth, yelps and growls at the dobe(Zeus) until he gets the picture and just moves on to the lab(Zippo). Here in the past 2 weeks, our dobe has been showing signs of rougher play as he has gotten bigger(you almost forget how fast a puppy sprouts up).
He has been approaching the wiener dog, and attempting to initiate a wrestling match, regardless of the wiener dogs warnings. He has turned it into a game of "let's see how close I can get to the wiener without the him biting me". He harrasses the wiener dog until he ends up under the bed where the dobe can no longer reach him. A couple of times, however, the dobe has gotten hold of the back of the neck of the wiener dog, and shook him like a play toy. This severely concerns me... and it is beginning to increase.
My initial reaction was to allow the dominant hierarchy play itself out. I had read where dobe packs will show their dominance by holding the other party down by the back of the neck until they submit, then the dominant party will let the lower rank go. The problem with this(if it is accurate, or course), is that Wilson the Wiener Dog doesn't want to be submissive. Moving forward with this logic, it seems the wiener dog snaps at the dobe and then the wrestling match begins to prove dominance.
This morning, my wife was at home (her day off, thank God) and calls me in a panic. She was in the tub and heard another "Dominance Match" going on. The wiener dog was hurt and, according to her report, was badly bleeding. I asked her to bring him to me at the office so I could get an accurate representation of what had happened, as she can sometimes overreact.
The winer dog has two puncture marks in the back of his neck that are about .25" in size, but are extremely deep... definitely through the "meat". My dobe goes for his reposting appointment today, and although the puncture marks clotted and stopped bleeding, I truly believe he needs stitches. I have instructed my wife to take both parties involved to the vet and get his professional opinion on the incisions.
Now, I'm a very level-headed person and will not implement drastic measures unless the situation warrants it. I need all your expertise regarding this type of behavior. Getting rid of any of these animals really doesn't seem to be an acceptable answer, but I will remain open to ideas as the health and happiness of them all is more important than anything else. Any and all contributions are welcomed, as I would like to get good responses to the following inquiries:
#1 - Is this normal for a puppy this size.
#2 - Is the damage done by the sharpness of puppy teeth, or is it the aggressive behavior of the dobe.
#3 - (a)Is it wise to let this play itself out, or should I be taking some preventative actions to curb this behavior? (b) What are the best suggestions for said preventative actions?
I really appreciate everyone's time and patience. I absolutely love my little dobe, but these boys(yes, they're all boys) need to live in somewhat perfect harmony as the wife and I aren't able to provide them with constant supervision. They have a permanent doggy door, with a .5 acre backyard which is completely dog proofed and fenced. Outside the behavior, I can't see what I've missed with this. These two boys sleep with each other (on my leather loveseat, of course) any other time... I'm just very concerned for both of them. I don't want their quality of life to diminish because of my ignorance of behavioral monitoring/modification.
Thanks in advance for all your help and encouragement.