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post #1 of 9 (permalink) Old 11-24-2012, 07:02 PM Thread Starter
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my 2o yr old son is marred with a baby. During his marriage he had heard I said bad thing about him.And he likes to say bad things about me from when I was 16 on. ( yah, juvy time for a runaway) Anyway, now we have had been ok, but a recent phone call from a family member ended it. It was false info and I confronted the person. They lied but finally relented. Problem being, my son is visiting them and I wont let him visit again. I don't know if I am right or not. Help.
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the 20 yr old and I and his wife have a very fragile relationship due to this persons tales
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the 20 yr old and I and his wife have a very fragile relationship due to this persons tales
Are these "mother/daughter in law" issues?
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I'd suggest finding a family counselling specialist.


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I'd suggest finding a family counselling specialist.
Ditto.
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Not wishing to pry too deeply but why is your son willing to take this persons word above yours?
You need sit down with your son and talk through your problems in a calm manner. If that is not possible then perhaps you need write a letter, never send (if it ends up being emotionally charged) the first draft read then rewrite and read again until you have put down the facts, your wishes for the future and when it reads level headed, give it to him.

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Problem being, my son is visiting them and I wont let him visit again. I don't know if I am right or not. Help.
My reading comprehension is a bit slow so this part confused me. Do you mean you won't let the person lying visit you again? You won't let your son visit the lying person again? If it's the latter how will you try to manage that?




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wow. talk to a professional.

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