| Doberman Related Chat If your post does not fit into any other category post here. |  |
01-09-2013, 10:41 PM
|
#1 (permalink)
| | Lil Pup | My Doberman is emotionally attached to his collar and needs a new one. Hello all!
My doberman Angus is emotionally attached to his collar. He is a rescue. I am his third owner not to mention i will be his last! anyhow he has had the same collar since his first owner.which seems to have been his only consistency in the 3 out of 4 years he has lived. He needs a new collar really bad. It is a nice leather collar with pyramid studs but it smells REALLY bad. I have tried cleaning it with leather cleaner many times and while it always looks nice afterward it still smells very bad. Its hard to even hug him without smelling it.
Anytime his collar is taken off he cries and as soon as he gets it back he is SO excited. My question is.. how do I get him less attached? If i got him the same collar but new I am sure he would notice. Is it a weight thing? a smell? or just that it is his own thing?..it wouldn't fit right at first either because it wouldn't be broken in. Do i just get him a new collar anyway and force him to deal with it for the structure of it all? Im sort of stuck on this one. Ive been thinking about it for awhile (hints the long description) so sorry.
thanks |
| | |
Sponsored Links
| Advertisement
| |
01-09-2013, 10:54 PM
|
#2 (permalink)
| | Paralibrarian
Posts: 4,290
Location: CNY Dogs Name: Elka Titles: NTD Dogs Age: DOB 5-16-09
Gallery Pics: 1 Visit GingerGunlock's Gallery Thanks: 13,676
Thanked 7,264 Times in 3,266 Posts
| I wonder if that's collar specifically, or a collar that you give him. Have you tried removing his (smelly) collar and putting a different one on? Or not yet? Does he seem genuinely fearful or agitated, just excited?
Depending on how "upset" he is, I would try trading collars and rewarding him for the process. If he gets too agitated, maybe put a second collar on him for a little while, then remove the smelly one, etc. Take it slowly, and don't agitate him too far; make it a fun game to play. Hopefully, that kind of thing will acclimate him to the changes, letting him know it isn't a big huge deal, and then you can put a new collar on him.
I know if we take Elka's collar off for any reason, she sniffs after us and noses it, in kind of a "Hey, that's mine!" sort of way. Having a collar off must feel like taking one's rings off, I've frequently thought. |
| | | The Following 6 Users Say Thank You to GingerGunlock For This Useful Post: | |
01-09-2013, 10:58 PM
|
#3 (permalink)
| | all natural <3
Posts: 11
Location: california Dogs Name: Teagan marie Titles: no Dogs Age: 4 1/2
Gallery Pics: 2 Visit Teagan_Marie's Gallery Thanks: 1
Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts
| My girl also gets weird when her collar is removed nosing and staring very intently almost demandingly at me however working with her and changing collars periodically has seemed to help her. She has 4, 2 pink ( one thick one thinner). A thinner green one, a bright orange reflective one and her leather harley davidson studded collar. I just every once in awhile will take them off for a bit and either put a different one or the same one depending on what I like best at the time haha. |
| |
01-09-2013, 11:10 PM
|
#4 (permalink)
| | Lil Pup | I have tried putting a new one on and he still acts all sad and whines without his. id say its not that he is getting agitated in an angry way but just a really genuinely depressed way like I am punishing him by taking it off.. like taking a baby blanket from a child. I don't know if its related but He also has a favorite toy and a blanket that he literally carries around like a child and cherishes. He has a groundhog toy that he ripped the squeaker and stuffing out of but has kept the fabric "skin" part of it intact and carries it and loves to just sit with it in his mouth. He acts as if that specific collars is one of his favorite things and he is sad without that one specifically. It makes me so sad to think of taking away that collar but I can not enable it. I will definitely try the advice given until I find a solution! because one day it will get worn out to the point he will HAVE to have a new one and i will have no choice.
Thanks so much! |
| | | The Following User Says Thank You to Kaycee&Angus For This Useful Post: | |
01-09-2013, 11:17 PM
|
#5 (permalink)
| | Alpha
Posts: 6,583
Location: Ontario, Canada Dogs Name: Saphire Dogs Age: 06/24/06
Gallery Pics: 9 Visit thea2003's Gallery Thanks: 24,359
Thanked 9,822 Times in 3,798 Posts
| Could you try leaving his old collar on and also putting on a new one, and then the new collar gets the scent of the old collar and you can take the old stinky one off.
Or maybe, associate the new collar with walks. The only time he goes for walks is when that collar is on? Or maybe everytime the collar is on, he gets his dinner?
__________________ |
| | | The Following 15 Users Say Thank You to thea2003 For This Useful Post: | Beaumont67 (01-11-2013), blueberry (01-10-2013), brw1982 (01-11-2013), Burns (01-10-2013), dapple (01-09-2013), dobedream (01-11-2013), domina (01-10-2013), falnfenix (01-10-2013), GingerGunlock (01-09-2013), Hilary (01-10-2013), lolonurse (01-10-2013), Ninabug (01-10-2013), RottenVonSpotten (01-09-2013), vivienne00 (01-10-2013), wgsdluver (01-10-2013) |
01-09-2013, 11:25 PM
|
#6 (permalink)
| | Hoof stompin' good
Posts: 17,482
Dogs Name: Dober: Whisper; PibbleHound: George; AHT: Slick Wilhemina, "Mina" Titles: George-Working Service Dog Dogs Age: 4.5 yr, 4 yr, 2.5 yr
Gallery Pics: 3 Visit RedFawnRising's Gallery Thanks: 55,319
Thanked 57,319 Times in 13,825 Posts
| In addition to the collar changing games with rewards and positive associations that others already suggested--try this: Cut a small piece of leather off the old collar, use a leather punch to make a hole in it, and hang it from one of the D rings on the new collar.
Tiny bit of the old stank for the boy, to help him make the transition--waaaay less of the old stank for you, to help your poor nose.
Edit to add: In all my years with dogs, I'd never seen an example--or at least such an extreme example--of what you're describing, until last year. And, it's not a rescue dog, but a fairly neurotic "Goldendoodle" who has to be touching her collar all the time, with her nose or a paw, even when the collar is off her for a bath or grooming.
__________________ "Better to write for yourself and have no public, than to write for the public and have no self." ―Cyril Connolly "The Universe always finds a way to keep the wise humble. Usually through an instrument like a PibbleHound."~honoring George |
| | | The Following 7 Users Say Thank You to RedFawnRising For This Useful Post: | |
01-09-2013, 11:25 PM
|
#7 (permalink)
| | Alpha
Posts: 467
Location: Miami, FL Dogs Name: Daisy/Calvin Titles: none Dogs Age: 01/12/09; 12/1/10
Gallery Pics: 0 Visit NAA2586's Gallery Thanks: 215
Thanked 416 Times in 233 Posts
| You are probably exacerbating his reaction to this collar. Take the collar off, and put on a new one like it doesn't matter because it doesn't. He's a dog, and I promise you he doesn't care about what collar he's wearing.
__________________ |
| | | The Following User Says Thank You to NAA2586 For This Useful Post: | |
01-10-2013, 07:33 AM
|
#8 (permalink)
| | Alpha
Posts: 4,469
Location: Southern California Dogs Name: Eli Titles: CGC
Gallery Pics: 0 Visit Lori Z's Gallery Thanks: 2,803
Thanked 9,063 Times in 3,192 Posts
| Buy a new leather one that has the same feel. I would never keep on a stinky collar. Put the new one on with the old for a day or two then when he is resting gently take the old one off, give him a nice chewy bone for distraction and throw it away. He will get used to the new one. I think part of the problem is how you are handling it. He has a new life with you, therefore a new collar be super positive about it, your vibe to him should be symbolizing the new life, calm, happy, secure and confident. Do not project that you feel sorry for him, it's like washing away the bad. Come from that position. That is what I would do but I can't handle smelly so... |
| | | The Following 5 Users Say Thank You to Lori Z For This Useful Post: | |
01-10-2013, 08:24 AM
|
#9 (permalink)
| | Alpha
Posts: 254
Dogs Name: Domina
Gallery Pics: 0 Visit domina's Gallery Thanks: 1,030
Thanked 362 Times in 144 Posts
| Quote:
Originally Posted by thea2003 Could you try leaving his old collar on and also putting on a new one, and then the new collar gets the scent of the old collar and you can take the old stinky one off.
Or maybe, associate the new collar with walks. The only time he goes for walks is when that collar is on? Or maybe everytime the collar is on, he gets his dinner? | I would definitely try this. I know I didn't try a similar method with a dog, but did with my own daughter. She hated shoes/socks. Anyway, she realized that she won't go for a walk/out if she doesn't put her shoes/socks on. It worked!
Hopefully something like that will work on your boy as well. |
| | | The Following User Says Thank You to domina For This Useful Post: | |
01-10-2013, 08:36 AM
|
#10 (permalink)
| | heaven took back my angel
Posts: 8,891
Location: Dog Canyon Dogs Name: Annie & Odie; RIP beloved Alex & Melody, Rocky baby, & now our dear, darling Willie Titles: Annie - hellion and sorceress; Odie - generic brown dog Dogs Age: b 7/10/09; b 1/13/13
Gallery Pics: 66 Visit lolonurse's Gallery Thanks: 23,229
Thanked 18,569 Times in 5,936 Posts
| I agree with putting both the old and the new collar on for several days, then take the old one off but leave the new one on... with treats, a walk, a game and other happy associations. Poor baby - hope he has a really good life now!
__________________ their pawprints in our hearts never fade |
| | | The Following 4 Users Say Thank You to lolonurse For This Useful Post: | |
01-10-2013, 04:43 PM
|
#11 (permalink)
| | Eschew Prolixity
Posts: 9,776
Location: Colorado Dogs Name: Kip, Capri Titles: Kip...PPEW--Practically Perfect in Every Way, DS#15; Capri...PT--Pillow Taxi, DS#15 Dogs Age: 7 years--Dec. 15, 2005, 4 years--Dec. 14, 2008
Gallery Pics: 6 Visit melbrod's Gallery Thanks: 22,467
Thanked 21,301 Times in 7,024 Posts
| A couple of other cleaning methods (if you can get the collar away from him) Baking Soda
Baking soda can be used a few different ways to remove odors from leather, all of which are very gentle, however it is always best to perform a spot test to be safe. Dry Baking Soda
Put Item in a paper bag or pillow case with an open box of baking soda for at least 24 hours. You may also sprinkle baking soda into the pockets and interior of the item or fill a sock with baking soda and leave it inside. Baking Soda Solution
Mix one teaspoon or baking soda with one liter of warm water and saturate the leather item (you may also increase the mixture and soak the item). Rinse item and dry flat. Vinegar
Dilute vinegar in equal parts warm water and let item soak. Rinse and repeat. Allow to dry.
Sponge the item with straight vinegar and rinse. May need to be repeated several times.
__________________ -----------Dragon Slaying Dobermans, Incorporated------------ 
---------------------------------Member #15----------------------------------- |
| | | The Following 2 Users Say Thank You to melbrod For This Useful Post: | |
01-10-2013, 05:04 PM
|
#12 (permalink)
| | Boats 'N Dobes
Posts: 130
Location: SW Missouri Dogs Name: Ramses (Rams) Dogs Age: Almost 3ish +/-
Gallery Pics: 1 Visit Rams's Gallery Thanks: 97
Thanked 325 Times in 94 Posts
| Along the lines of alternate cleaning - what about saddle soap or neatsfoot oil? |
| | | The Following 2 Users Say Thank You to Rams For This Useful Post: | | | The Following 5 Users Say Thank You to Kaycee&Angus For This Useful Post: | |
01-11-2013, 04:36 PM
|
#14 (permalink)
| | Eschew Prolixity
Posts: 9,776
Location: Colorado Dogs Name: Kip, Capri Titles: Kip...PPEW--Practically Perfect in Every Way, DS#15; Capri...PT--Pillow Taxi, DS#15 Dogs Age: 7 years--Dec. 15, 2005, 4 years--Dec. 14, 2008
Gallery Pics: 6 Visit melbrod's Gallery Thanks: 22,467
Thanked 21,301 Times in 7,024 Posts
| If you do find something that works, could you report back and let us know?
Good luck.
__________________ -----------Dragon Slaying Dobermans, Incorporated------------ 
---------------------------------Member #15----------------------------------- |
| | | The Following User Says Thank You to melbrod For This Useful Post: | | | Sponsored Links | Advertisement
| |  | | Thread Tools | | | | Display Modes | Linear Mode |
Posting Rules
| You may not post new threads You may not post replies You may not post attachments You may not edit your posts HTML code is Off | | | All times are GMT -5. The time now is 05:11 AM. |