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Why Supervising Dogs and Kids Doesnít Work

Here is a useful read for people with children & dogs

Itís sound advice given frequently: Supervise your dogs and kids while they are together. Breeders warn parents, ďDonít leave the dog alone with children, no matter how friendly the breed.Ē Veterinarians advise, ďNever leave a dog and a child in the same room together.Ē Dog trainers explain, ďAll dogs can bite so supervise your dog when you have children over.Ē Everyone knows the drill. So why doesnít it work? Why are there an estimated 800,000 Americans seeking medical attention for dog bites each year, with over half of these injuries to children ages 5-9?

The bites are not a result of negligent parents leaving Fido to care for the baby while mom does household chores, oblivious to the needs of her children. In fact, Iíve consulted on hundreds of dog bite cases and 95% of the time the parent was standing within 3 feet of the child watching both child and dog when the child was bitten. Parents are supervising. The problem is not lack of supervision. The problem is no one has taught parents what they should be watching.

Parents generally have not received any education on what constitutes good dog body language and what constitutes an emergency between the dog and the child. Parents generally have no understanding of the predictable series of canine body cues that would indicate a dog might bite. And complicating matters further, most parents get confused by the good intentions of the child and fail to see when a dog is exhibiting signs of stress. The good new is all of this is easy to learn! We can all get better at this.

Here is a simple list to help you improve your supervision skills:

Watch for loose canine body language. Good dog body language is loose, relaxed, and wiggly. Look for curves in your dogís body when he is around a child. Stiffening and freezing in a dog are not good. If you see your dog tighten his body, or if he moves from panting to holding his breath (he stops panting), you should intervene. These are early signs that your dog is not comfortable.

Watch for inappropriate human behavior. Intervene if your child climbs on or attempts to ride your dog. Intervene if your child pulls the ears, yanks the tail, lifts the jowls or otherwise pokes and prods the dog. Donít marvel that your dog has the patience of Job if he is willing to tolerate these antics. And please donít videotape it for YouTube! Be thankful your dog has good bite inhibition and intervene before itís too late.

Watch for these three really easy to see stress signals in your dog. All of them indicate you should intervene and separate the child and dog:

Yawning outside the context of waking up

Half-moon eye Ė this means you can see the whites on the outer edges of your dogís eyes.

Lip licking outside the context of eating food

Watch for avoidance behaviors. If your dog moves away from a child, intervene to prevent the child from following the dog. A dog that chooses to move away is making a great choice. Heís saying, ďI donít really want to be bothered, so Iíll go away.Ē However, when you fail to support his great choice and allow your child to continue to follow him, itís likely the dogís next choice will be, ďSince I canít get away, Iíll growl or snap at this kid to get the child to move away.Ē Please donít cause your dog to make that choice.

Listen for growling. I canít believe how many times Iíve heard parents say, ďOh, he growled all the time but we never thought he would bite.Ē Dog behavior, including aggression, is on a continuum. For dogs, growling is an early warning sign of aggression. Heed it. If growling doesnít work, the dog may escalate to snapping or biting. Growling is a clue that you should intervene between the dog and the child.

To pet owners, particularly those who also have children, thank you for supervising your dog! As a dog trainer and mother of two, I know that juggling kids and dogs is no easy feat. It takes patience, understanding, and a great deal of supervision. I hope these tips will help you get better at supervising.

source : Why Supervising Dogs and Kids Doesn?t Work | Robin Bennett

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Excellent article Iceman--thanks for posting it.
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Very interesting article--a good one to spread around.

I’ve heard too, and maybe someone who has a bit more behavior experience can tell me if this is correct--that when a dog is playing with another dog, mouthing, etc., they can make a lot of scary sounding noises, but their tongues are flopping all around. If they draw their tongue back into their mouth, out of the way, so to speak, that means they are more in a defensive or biting mood rather than just playing.

Of course, mouthing a kid should be discouraged or not allowed at all, but I wonder if this observation would be true for a dog *playing* with kids.

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