Originally Posted by bluizk

Well, one suggestion is that perhaps the two of you can socialize yourselves around others that have Dobermans, whether with a reputable breeder, or someone you know that has a Dobe, and starting with a puppy always helps too. I wouldn't think to EXPECT any agression, growling or having to have a "heavy hand" at all! Dobermans are highly intelligent and learn quickly. They also have a great sense of humor, are extremely cute, and very loving, and like to snuggle and hang out with you. You just need to give the proper training, social skills, etc., etc. I am not sure what your immediate plans are, i.e., getting an adult, a rescue, or going through a breeder, but getting hands on socialization is always a great thing to do ~sounds like it would be -especially for your wife. You don't want to "fear" your new family member. Just think of it like this: If you had a new human child in your home-would you be afraid of it? Certainly not. Expecting him/her to trust and respect you also requires you trust amd respect him/her. I think being around Dobes and taking the time and effort to feel more comfortable around the "big black dog' would help both of you! You must be very excited to realize the new Dobe member of your family! Congrats!
BLUIZK